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Why Did the Moron Throw the Clock?

The Apostle Paul is a pain in the butt.

I’m not complaining, mind you, about his chauvinistic dissing of women.

Garry Wills, in What Paul Meant (Penguin Books, 2006), says it was all a mistake. Paul never tried to keep women silent or prevent them from teaching. He was framed, Wills contends, and no misogynous slander ever flowed from his pen.

It’s too bad, then, that the testosteronal tripe attributed to Paul is frozen forever in canonical scripture. Scholars will argue forever about what Paul said and what he didn’t.

Ironically, it’s the undisputed words of Paul that are so exasperating. He sets impossible standards for Christian conduct. For example, consider the condescending Pauline instructions highlighted for this Sunday by the Revised Common Lectionary:

Let love be genuine; hate what is evil, hold fast to what is good;
Love one another with mutual affection; outdo one another in showing honor.
Do not lag in zeal, be ardent in spirit, serve the Lord.
Rejoice in hope, be patient in suffering, persevere in prayer.
Contribute to the needs of the saints; extend hospitality to strangers.
Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse them.
Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep.
Live in harmony with one another; do not be haughty, but associate with the lowly. Romans 12:9-16


It’s not that we couldn’t live like that if we wanted to. It’s just that it would be so dissatisfying. Can you imagine a book, film, or Fox News broadcast that would attract your attention by reporting this kind of behavior? How would Nancy Grace ever open her mouth?

What Paul is saying basically, is stop complaining. Stop cursing and suing your adversaries. Stop carping about persons who look different than you or speak a language you can’t understand. Stop looking down your nose at people you regard as inferior. Stop making jokes about persons you regard as a lower order of humanity.

Of course, much humor is about making fun of races, ethnic groups, and individuals we regard as comically different from us. Think of all the jokes we’d miss if we followed Paul’s prescription for conduct, if we ignored our pain, welcomed strangers, blessed our enemies, and sat at the same table with those we thought were beneath us.

About 62 years ago, when I was learning how to read, I came across a joke in a children’s magazine.

Question: Why did the moron throw his clock out the window?
Answer: He wanted to see time fly.

I didn’t get the joke, and even now I’m not sure I see the humor. Back then I didn’t know what a moron was, and any 5-year-old knows a flying clock has nothing to do with the passage of time.

The joke, I suppose, is that the moron is too stupid to know that, and it’s both funny and reassuring to know we are smarter than people who throw clocks.

As I grew older, moron jokes were succeeded by blond jokes or Polish jokes or racist jokes, all of which find humor in the nuances of other persons’ behavior.

A few years ago an item in The Onion shook me to the core. It made me wonder if I was experiencing early-onset crankiness and was losing my sense of humor.

The Onion published an article was about a person with developmental disabilities. The headline read: “Autistic reporter Michael Falk says the stainless steel CometLiner car was lucky enough to escape unharmed from its collision with a man.”

Usually, I think The Onion is very funny. Articles in Our Dumb Century left me chortling for days, especially the story, “Assassination of Archduke Ferdinand spreads fear at Archduke Convention.” I laughed out loud at “Area Bird Creeped Out by Bird Watcher.” I thought, “Violent Death of Human Being Terrific News for Once” (on bin Laden) was responsible social commentary.

But not this story about an autistic reporter. I found it offensive. When I came across the story online, I added a comment that The Onion had crossed a line. Presidents, popes, archdukes and bird watchers are all fair game because they knew their chosen predilections would attract critics and controversy. But I saw nothing funny about making fun of the disordered thought processes of an autistic man.

Most Onion fans who added their comments thought I was a tight-assed whiner.

“I have two autistic children and I thought the story was funny as hell,” wrote one reader. Another wrote, “I am autistic and I thought it was frickin’ funny.”

So maybe I’m missing something. Clearly, a lot of people think it’s amusing to mimic the demeanor or vocabulary of developmentally disabled persons, who they dismiss as “retards.” One of the most insightful commentators of our day – Jon Stewart of The Daily Show – often uses the words “retard” or “retarded” to label eccentric political views.

“Retard” use abounds, not only on Comedy Central but in high schools, college campuses, offices and churches. For adolescents learning to deal with life’s capriciousness, it’s a useful descriptive – stronger than “goofy” and more adult than “stoopid.” But it is a biting epithet, especially to the parents and siblings of disabled children.

Developmental disabilities affect many families. My cousin Donnie, who I haven’t seen in nearly 60 years, had Down syndrome. He was a year or so older than me and I remember playing with him on the floor of Grandpa’s living room in the Catskills. He was a happy, laughing child, oblivious to the fact that the adults seemed deeply disturbed by his behavior.

I do not recall his behavior being any stranger than my own at 5 or 6. One day Grandma distributed a pack of candy cigarettes to the kids – peppermint sticks with red tips to simulate burning ash – and we pretended we were smoking like our parents (this was circa 1952).

Donnie stuck the red end in his mouth and made happy sucking sounds while we kids laughed and imitated him. But Grandma jumped up and pulled the candy out of his mouth and said, “No! Bad!” To us kids, Donnie was a great playmate. To Grandma, he was a bad example.

Not long afterwards, Donnie’s parents moved to California and I never saw him again. Decades later, when I was a traveling church bureaucrat, I stopped by Auntie’s house in Sacramento to say hello. Her oldest son – Donnie’s brother – was visiting, too. We chatted amiably, updating each other about family news. I wanted to ask about Donnie, who I knew had been placed in institutional care shortly after his family moved west. But I knew well the family sensitivities and didn’t want to ask a direct question.

Finally, I said, “I remember how much fun it was when we kids were all together at Grandpa and Grandma’s. I remember how much I enjoyed playing with Donnie.”

Auntie did not react, nor did her son. But in a few moments they moved on to a different subject, about how bad the winters were in the Catskills and how much better it was in California.

I don’t know whatever happened to Donnie, and clearly it was painful for Auntie to talk about him. He could be in his sixties today, but it’s unlikely. Statistically, a Down syndrome child born in the 1940s would not live past his twenties. But that is changing now and life expectancy is dramatically improving.

Probably Donnie lived long enough to hear himself labeled a retard. He certainly didn’t hear the word from his young cousins because no one ever told us that he had a disability and none of us noticed. He didn’t seem different to us. To us he was not lacking in any of the gifts that made him a great playmate: joy, humor, and a special talent for having fun.

It’s a shame you have to be six years old to know that everyone comes into the world with special gifts and the infinite value God assigns to all God’s children. Later in life, we try to be more analytical about it. But a child’s instinct can be fairly profound. We might not have been able to put it into words, but we knew: Donnie was created in the image of God. Calling him a retard would have been blasphemous. 

Last Sunday, my spouse Martha, other volunteers and I joined Katie in the annual autism walk. Marching as “Kate’s Mates,” our team joined thousands of persons all over the country in an effort to raise money for autism research.

Kate, 26, has autism – a syndrome with a wide spectrum and a myriad of manifestations. Katie’s particular diagnosis is Pervasive Developmental Disorder (PDD), and she is childlike, charming and (as all her friends know) extremely verbal. Like virtually all individuals in her situation, Katie is too often referred to – usually behind her back – as a retard.

That is why her mother and I literally stood and cheered when Glee co-stars Jane Lynch and Lauren Potter appeared in a public service announcement about the use of the R word: “It’s not acceptable.”  (See the link at the end of this blog.) It’s a message Jane Lynch and her delightfully devious TV character, Sue Sylvester, have been preaching for several seasons. Earlier in Glee's run, when Sue was revealed to be the devoted caretaker of a sister with Down syndrome, Katie's mom asked Sue to make a clear public statement against the indiscriminate use of the R word.

Read Martha's blog here.

Also, it's not acceptable.

And the Apostle Paul would be justified in ordering us to keep silent about it in the churches or anywhere else.

(See Jane Lynch and Lauren Potter here.)

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